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Nov 23

Blog It Forward

Published in Widowism by chefswidow

I don’t know Anissa Mayhew.  I met her briefly at BlogHer while sneaking a smoke out back.  Since that brief (and very hilarious) meeting I have been a reader of her blog, Aiming Low. Last week I was saddened to hear that she had a stroke, this being her second.    The 35 year old mother of 3 was in the icu fighting for her life.  I followed the twitter thoughts and prayers, read the website updates, and kept her own family close in my prayers.

I found that Anissa was in my thoughts alot last week and over the weekend I knew that I had to do something.  Because I only know her through her words, I felt odd speaking about her on Twitter.  Unfortunately I have watched as people use other people’s tragedies to promote their own agendas.  Blech.  But I couldn’t stop thinking about her.  I couldn’t stop thinking about the simple fact that she too is a mother like me, close in age, with 3 children.  I decided that I was going to help. I was going to use what I have been given (the restaurant) to help her family in their time of need.  I have been a blogger for 4 years.  In that time I have met some of the most amazing people.  I have bonded with them and some of them have even turned into beautiful friendships.  The interwebs have changed my life and I hope know that if we were ever at a dark point  in our life, the interwebs would turn the light on for us.

The idea of Blog It Forward was born.  As bloggers we have the power and the network to help people.  And that is precisely what Blog It Forward is all about.  Helping a women I don’t know.  A woman you don’t know.  Three children that I will probably never meet.  A husband that needs strength.  Providing just a little sliver of hope…

The holiday season is often lost in translation.  This year I will not let it be.  Please join me in the celebration* of giving for a friend in need:

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*The more people we get to join us of Blog It Forward, the more CASH MONEY we can send to the Mayhew family.  Pass it around.  Invite your friends!

**Plus getting a bunch of bloggers together when there are $1 beer specials always seems to bring out the sillies (and the crazies;).


30 Responses to “Blog It Forward”

  1. Rachel on November 23rd, 2009 11:06 am

    If only I could drive up to Cleveland that day! I never even met Anissa and she’s on my mind too…

  2. alexa - cleveland's a plum on November 23rd, 2009 11:12 am

    i’ll be there, and i’ll be blogging about it later today!

  3. Cleveland Foodie on November 23rd, 2009 11:34 am

    [...] don’t know Anissa Mayhew. And until last week, I never even heard her name. That was until Amelia e-mailed several local bloggers asking for help. None of us know her. But she’s a fellow [...]

  4. Adam on November 23rd, 2009 11:46 am

    I am going to try and get there. that is one of my rare days off this time of year [working in retail has its drawbacks] and i am going to drag a long a friend of mine who is a Chef at the Pentagon and cooks for the Joint Chiefs of Staff for the Air Force.

    we are excited! Hope to meet you as well!

  5. @heartmychloe (Sara) on November 23rd, 2009 12:21 pm

    You already know that I’ll be there! I’ll also be blogging about it later today. =)

  6. OHmommy on November 23rd, 2009 12:23 pm

    Awesome idea. Brava. I will sooooo be there.

  7. pamela on November 23rd, 2009 12:25 pm

    im too far away :/ but im passing it forward!

  8. Tom on November 23rd, 2009 12:26 pm

    What a wonderful and thoughtful gesture! I have added the event to the calendar on my blog for everyone who visits to see and I plan on attending as well. Hopefully I can drag some of my other friends along with me as well.

  9. rimarama on November 23rd, 2009 12:51 pm

    What an awesome gesture! I found you thru OHMommy. I live in Cleveland so I will definitely try to come (will also blog and retweet)

  10. Jill on November 23rd, 2009 1:09 pm

    What a lovely and thoughtful idea. I’m the organizer of a local Happy Hour group through Meetup.com (we’ve been to the Greenhouse Tavern for a Happy Hour before and loved it). I just posted the event on our site. Hopefully we can get a crowd together to help her and her family.

  11. PrincessJenn on November 23rd, 2009 1:17 pm

    You are so amazing for doing this. Wish I could be there, but Canada is a bit of a far commute ;-)

  12. Brittany on November 23rd, 2009 1:26 pm

    This is amazing. Looks like I need to get myself to Cleveland.

  13. Katy on November 23rd, 2009 2:03 pm

    What a great idea! I wish I lived closer, but I will be lifting a glass to Anissa with you all in spirit.

  14. chefswidow on November 23rd, 2009 2:22 pm

    Thank you to everyone for sharing Blog It Forward. What a great response. I look forward to meeting you all and toasting to Anissa.

    A

  15. megan on November 23rd, 2009 3:38 pm

    I would so be there in a heartbeat… if it wasn’t for the 2 hr drive…

  16. Domestic Extraordinaire on November 23rd, 2009 4:42 pm

    Looking forward to it, its on the calendar now!

  17. Allison on November 23rd, 2009 4:43 pm

    count me in.

  18. TraciJ on November 23rd, 2009 7:07 pm

    You are such a special person to put this together for Anissa!! Amazing…..

    Unfortunately, I live in TN…………..However, I will forward this info to my sister and some of her friends that live in the area.

    I hope you guys have a great turnout.

    Thanks!

    PS: We will be “home” for Christmas and we hope to make it down to GHT for dinner. If so, I hope to get to meet you and Jonathan…..

  19. The Mayor on November 23rd, 2009 8:10 pm

    I don’t know Anissa but feel very touched by her situation. I’m am going to try to put a Detroit contingency together and roll into Cleveland Dec. 3

  20. Jeff Hershberger on November 23rd, 2009 8:14 pm

    I heard about the event through Meetup – thanks Jill! I’ve alerted my local blogger friends and posted an event on the Cleveland Social Media Club site. See you all there!

  21. amy2boys on November 23rd, 2009 10:31 pm

    This is fantastic! If I lived anywhere near you I’d be there!! Thanks for doing this.

  22. Patty on November 23rd, 2009 11:01 pm

    This is just amazing and touching. The one time I wish I wasn’t a Texan.

  23. Managed Chaos on November 23rd, 2009 11:06 pm

    You are simply amazing for doing this! I’m planning on being there (once i get childcare figured out).

  24. Bite Buff on November 24th, 2009 5:32 pm

    This is such a generous and heartwarming thing that you (& Chef) are doing. I’m going to try and make it, and will certainly blog/tweet about it until then.

  25. Kasey Crabtree on December 2nd, 2009 8:56 pm

    I’m new to blogging, and I’m unemployed, but I’m coming and will do what I can. See you all there!

  26. AmyinOHIo on December 4th, 2009 12:13 pm

    This is absolutely amazing and inspiring. I hope you don’t mind if Cincinnati copy-cats you soon dude.

  27. Bloggers Rock « Ka-Ka-Ka-Katy — a 30-something mom, wife, daughter, sister, woman in Cleveland on December 4th, 2009 9:51 pm

    [...] local blogging queen, Chef’s Widow decided that the CLE should gather to do something and Blog it Forward was [...]

  28. Jeff Hershberger on December 5th, 2009 1:04 pm

    It was great fun. I wish I could have mixed with the crowd more, but I had to sit down and eat and I had another event to attend afterwards!

    BTW, the Greenhouse makes an EXCELLENT bar burger!

  29. Neohawk.Org Blog It Forward on December 5th, 2009 6:12 pm
  30. bamboolabcode on December 21st, 2009 12:50 am

    Thank you for this information.

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