Comments on: Mean Girl http://www.chefswidow.com/2010/03/15/mean-girl/#utm_source=feed&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=feed CRAZY ASS TALES OF LIFE AS A CHEF'S WIFE Mon, 06 Feb 2012 18:09:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Steph http://www.chefswidow.com/2010/03/15/mean-girl/comment-page-1/#comment-4747 Steph Thu, 18 Mar 2010 04:58:59 +0000 http://www.chefswidow.com/?p=3290#comment-4747 Yep, that's me too. I was so mean to my chef a couple days ago. Decided to jostle our harmony and invent a fight. Sometimes I just want some attention, so I'm like a little girl and collect negative attention. The part that really fills me with sadness is that my chef is truly one of the kindest, gentlest souls in the world. Now he's having a lousy week with his own emotions and I know it's because I started it off all wrong. Thankyou so much for this post! It makes me feel a little less crazy that I'm not the only women that has a mean girl living inside of her. First time responding to your blog, but I've been reading it for almost a year. Yep, that’s me too. I was so mean to my chef a couple days ago. Decided to jostle our harmony and invent a fight. Sometimes I just want some attention, so I’m like a little girl and collect negative attention. The part that really fills me with sadness is that my chef is truly one of the kindest, gentlest souls in the world. Now he’s having a lousy week with his own emotions and I know it’s because I started it off all wrong. Thankyou so much for this post! It makes me feel a little less crazy that I’m not the only women that has a mean girl living inside of her. First time responding to your blog, but I’ve been reading it for almost a year.

]]> By: Kitten Kaboom http://www.chefswidow.com/2010/03/15/mean-girl/comment-page-1/#comment-4736 Kitten Kaboom Tue, 16 Mar 2010 12:55:33 +0000 http://www.chefswidow.com/?p=3290#comment-4736 I think we all have our moments. No body is perfect and we all say things that wish we hadn't. As cliche as it sounds love means never having to say your sorry, but the irony is that it is when you want to say it the most. You're post made me tear up... because I've had many moments like that in my life as well. At my wedding I read a monologue from The Merchant of Venice (Act III, Scene 2) I think it really sums up "You see me, Lord Bassanio, where I stand, Such as I am: though for myself alone I would not be ambitious in my wish, To wish myself much better; yet, for you I would be trebled twenty times myself; A thousand times more fair, ten thousand times more rich; That only to stand high in your account, I might in virtue, beauties, livings, friends, Exceed account..." It goes on, but I'm already clearly the lame Shakespear quoter so I wont embarass myself further :) I think we all have our moments. No body is perfect and we all say things that wish we hadn’t. As cliche as it sounds love means never having to say your sorry, but the irony is that it is when you want to say it the most. You’re post made me tear up… because I’ve had many moments like that in my life as well. At my wedding I read a monologue from The Merchant of Venice (Act III, Scene 2) I think it really sums up
“You see me, Lord Bassanio, where I stand,
Such as I am: though for myself alone
I would not be ambitious in my wish,
To wish myself much better; yet, for you
I would be trebled twenty times myself;
A thousand times more fair, ten thousand times more rich;
That only to stand high in your account,
I might in virtue, beauties, livings, friends,
Exceed account…”

It goes on, but I’m already clearly the lame Shakespear quoter so I wont embarass myself further :)

]]> By: dcw_jes http://www.chefswidow.com/2010/03/15/mean-girl/comment-page-1/#comment-4735 dcw_jes Tue, 16 Mar 2010 03:44:22 +0000 http://www.chefswidow.com/?p=3290#comment-4735 i know exactly what you mean! i have an inner bitch that comes out occassionally. i love my chef to death, but SOMETIMES! wow. i can seriously be mean. i have the same problems with my past/insecurities/alcoholic....etc. we call that girl my "disease" and its not my alcoholic personality! ha! its an inside joke, its just that sometimes, i am sick and my mouth shows it. i once told a guy (not my current boyfriend) that i was glad that i wasnt his friend, because i wouldnt want his baby. we broke up shortly after that because i couldnt stop myself from being mean or spiteful towards him. and, deep down, i really meant it. most of the stuff that pops out of my mouth isnt that bad anymore, i just have a habit of telling it like it is, wether its nice or not. and yes, i regret a lot of things i say. we all have our moments is all i am saying i guess... i know exactly what you mean! i have an inner bitch that comes out occassionally. i love my chef to death, but SOMETIMES! wow. i can seriously be mean. i have the same problems with my past/insecurities/alcoholic….etc. we call that girl my “disease” and its not my alcoholic personality! ha! its an inside joke, its just that sometimes, i am sick and my mouth shows it. i once told a guy (not my current boyfriend) that i was glad that i wasnt his friend, because i wouldnt want his baby. we broke up shortly after that because i couldnt stop myself from being mean or spiteful towards him. and, deep down, i really meant it. most of the stuff that pops out of my mouth isnt that bad anymore, i just have a habit of telling it like it is, wether its nice or not. and yes, i regret a lot of things i say. we all have our moments is all i am saying i guess…

]]> By: Megan http://www.chefswidow.com/2010/03/15/mean-girl/comment-page-1/#comment-4734 Megan Tue, 16 Mar 2010 02:27:44 +0000 http://www.chefswidow.com/?p=3290#comment-4734 Thanks for sharing that Amelia. I can be really mean too. Nice to know I'm not alone. :) Thanks for sharing that Amelia. I can be really mean too. Nice to know I’m not alone. :)

]]> By: iCarabout-Cleveland Entertainment Reporter http://www.chefswidow.com/2010/03/15/mean-girl/comment-page-1/#comment-4733 iCarabout-Cleveland Entertainment Reporter Tue, 16 Mar 2010 00:59:50 +0000 http://www.chefswidow.com/?p=3290#comment-4733 Thank you for being real and not just posting surface level things. It take a tremendous person to admit their flaws and mistakes. It takes an even bigger person to put them out there. Realizing your mistakes is the best step in fixing them :-). You're an awesome person. Thank you for being real and not just posting surface level things. It take a tremendous person to admit their flaws and mistakes. It takes an even bigger person to put them out there. Realizing your mistakes is the best step in fixing them :-) . You’re an awesome person.

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